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Nick Kirsch

Eriko's family is safe...

I've received many inquiries about Eriko's family - from far and wide. Old friends, distant family, and far away co-workers - some of whom I haven't talked with in years - reached out to make sure that Eriko and her family were doing well.

The good news is that Eriko's immediate family is in Nagoya and most of her relatives and friends are in Nagoya. Nagoya was not impacted much by the quake/tsunami nor is it near the reactors.
The bad news is she does have relatives that are closer to Tokyo. All are safe, but some did have some fairly significant damage to their homes and/or businesses. Her Aunt and Uncle are still without running water, even though we're ten days from the onset of the tremors. They also don't have any natural gas, but that is of little consequence to them in particular. Amazingly, a neighbor in the area has well water and is supplying neighbors who don't. Her Aunt and Uncle cannot function in their jobs (as a dentist and researcher) either due to lack of water/electricity or because of damage to instruments - so what do they do? They volunteer their time for those who are in shelters.
These are some very strong people.

 

Old House vs New Home

Here is a picture of our home as it currently stands:



Here is a rendition of where we are heading:


The tenants move out at the end of April and then construction starts.

Wheee!

The Remodel

It has started. After the acquisition of the company I’m working for, I’m now in a position to move faster on the remodel of our home rather than slower. We are excited.


We’re working with a build/design firm called Build, LLC who just continue to live up to their reputation as being principled, cost-conscious and having good aptitude for modern design. We’re not yet into the build phase, but if you spend some time on this site you should have complete confidence in their abilities: http://www.ahousebythepark.com/journal/. It is a complete step-by-step look at the building of a modern home and is fantastically done. Not only do I have a random web reference, but a close co-worker and the SVP of my department both used Build for their remodels.

Our house, and some of the accompanying design challenges it presents, was recently featured on Build’s Blog: http://blog.buildllc.com/2011/02/the-conundrum-of-gables/

Don’t expect to see regular updates on here, but maybe I’ll get around to posting a picture of the design or progress…

The House Hunting Adventure...

  • Plan A - ask neighboring office if they'll sell and allow us to expand our condo by a single room.
  • Plan B - low-bid for an OK home on a decent lot.
  • Plan C - reasonable bid for a wonderful home in a decent spot. No yard, busy street.
  • Plan D - remodel existing home. Cost prohibitive.
  • Plan E - buy multi-tenant home on nice lot with current rental income. Potential for later...
Plan E won. I'd love to write more, but between exciting things at work, getting a little time for fun, and playing with the kids, this is the most time I've had in weeks.

More Love

This is a previously unpublished blog entry that I wrote before Momoko's birth. It touches me to publish it, unaltered, now that she is almost eight months old.

The clock ticks towards the arrival of our second. We don't know if a little boy or a little girl is kicking their legs inside of Eriko's ever expanding belly. We don't know what this child will look like, sound like, or act like.

I don't remember what I was thinking with Jerry - fear, apprehension, excitement? That is almost four years ago - which is amazing to comprehend. I don't remember each detail of Jerry growing up, but I do know that I feel intense fondness whenever I think of him.

Now I worry - when there is a second - do I have to share my love? Does Jerry get less of me? Surely less of my time, less of my attention, less of my patience. These things just must be - I am finite; Eriko is finite. Is my love finite - does Jerry get less of me?

There is no doubt that Jerry has brought tremendous joy to Eriko and I - but he also changed our lives. We don't have the same time for each other, the same attention in each other, the same patience for each other. Yet, Jerry's love more than replaces what we give to him. I have to share Eriko with him and yet, our love for each other isn't diminished - changed, for sure - but no less.

Amidst my apprhension, there is sadness - I will miss these days. Jerry is my only son, my only child. In some ways, it is the sadness that occurs in the passing of time - the fear that things just couldn't possibly get better. I hope, and deep down I know, that despite what we will all invest, this child will bring out even more from us all.

What's an angel, Daddy?

Me: Mama, we have two angels in our house. 

Jerry: What’s an angel, Daddy? 
Me: An angel is a special person … 
Jerry: Then I’m an angel to you and you’re an angel to me. Because I love you and you love me. 
Me: That’s right, Jerry. 
Jerry: We have four angels, Daddy. Mama loves you and Mama loves Momo too. 

Love - pass it on!